Now, when I write this, the time shows 4.45 am. I was awake this early because of the strange dream I've just had. Here is my dream. First I and one of my fellow teacher were in a jungle, we were hunted by what looked like a troop of Western soldiers with a helicopter. We hid in a river bank, n it's really cold. (I think it's because of the fan in my bedroom, he....) The dream went on. I was separated from my fellow teacher. And appeared a girl from my church. (In real life, I don't have any feeling for this girl, but she has ever showed that she had feeling for me, wakaka...) And came out one of my best friends. The dream changed that I was not hunted by the soldiers anymore, but I had a deadly disease that I was going to die soon, LOL.... Then I felt very sad, not because I would leave any girl (that girl, I think), but I would leave my best friend that I couldn't help him to handle his problem again. What a strange dream.
Well, he is one of my friend. But now, I seldom have time to sit or chat with him again. At the time, he's just had a very unconvenient event (I don't know which term is better to express his bad experience) and had changed his personality a lot. He is not he was again, some of my friends said that. But, in time such this, I didn't do anything to help him. And even seldom share my time with him. I know I have to be there to help him, to give him courage to sail the storm and and tsunami of life. From now on, I will try to arrange more of my time for him.
As a saying says that, it's much more difficult to maintance a friendship than to find a friend. It's totally correct. That's why, appreciate your friends highly. Make good friend with them. Share your shoulders for them when they have problem. Making good friends just like building a house out of diamonds. If it's dirty, you'll have to polish it until it shines brightly. If you lose it, it will make your house is not as beauty as before. Finally, let's build a house of friendships together on a strong foundation: love, care, share, joy, understanding and time. Happy friendships everyday.
To all of my friends, and you, I LOVE YOU Friends...
Citra_tdz
JLU
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yup.., i agree with you.., that a friend should be there when the other friend need help even tough they don't ask for it..
one thing that i want to share with you is.., no matter yous friend had change.., don't yo ever try to re-change him again.., and try to make him being a him previously before he got the problem...
it is because.., he is still him right now.., maybe he has changed.., but still it is his decision and he is being nobody else.. he is him.. just in the different form of attitude maybe..
world change, live change, and human also can change.. doesn't it?
good friends never demand their friends to behave in a particular way and resist to change..,
good friends will always be there even when they know their friends tell a crap..
but it is just my opinion.., can be possibly very wrong.. hehehehe
Hehehe.. Thanx kiki. May be the term 'change'is appropiate for my friend. I think it's clearer if I say that his face and attitude lately, show that he is having a weight burden on his shoulder. But until now I only do a little to support him, huh, what a friend I am. Well, now I know that I have to do something to help him get out from what looks like a big burden of his.
Once again, thanx kiki for the comment.
JLU
It's really "strange dream" i think...
So many questions there...
?????
yeah...
just try the best to help him get out from his big burden.
... mmmm
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